Why Women are Control Freaks?
Women are extremely susceptible to the spirit of anxiety and the spirit of witchcraft.
Witchcraft is forcing others to do what the witch wants them to do.
I didn’t know I had severe chronic anxiety until 2023, when I was delivered through fasting and prayer—just three hours, and that was it; I was freed once and for all.
But before that, I lived under the control of a controlling spirit—I couldn’t focus on anything until others finished what I told them to do. My eyes and attention were tethered to another person’s actions, at the mercy of their obedience to my requests. I stayed anxious and unsettled until the task I’d asked of them was done.
That was in 2022. I’d known Jesus all my life, but I didn’t know about Him. (I won’t repeat my full testimony here, but yes, it was a reversed experience compared to many cultural Christians.)
Back then, I knew nothing about “spirits”—though I’d dabbled in astrology and fortune-telling, which brought a curse upon me (I repented, and the curse was broken in February 2024). The very idea of “spirit” was foreign to me.
The only thing I was sure of: I was a control freak.
But I didn’t put the two things together—controlling and anxiety—until, well, during my very recent 21-day water fast.
To be exact, the revelation dawned on me on June 8, the last day of my fast, which happened to fall on Pentecost Sunday—
I was controlling because I had severe, chronic, panicking anxiety.
In this article:
My deliverance freed me and my revelation will free you
5 Ways anxiety ruins your life
My deliverance freed me and my revelation will free you
Anxiety is a demon
Was I not delivered in 2023? I was. But just like deliverance from lust and alcoholism—deliverance doesn’t mean perfection; it means liberation, purification, freedom, victory. You’ve overcome it, even if you stumble again.
The difference is: When you’re wallowing in sin, you’re fighting a losing battle. Only after you’re delivered spiritually does your self-control become meaningful.
Anxiety is NOT a mental issue.
No matter how many schooled "experts" holding man-made qualifications claim that you can be freed by therapy, breathwork, (oriental) meditation, and physical exercises—blah, blah, blah.
Lies. All of them.
Anxiety is a demonic spirit that needs to be cast out.
Anxiety is the opposite of peace, joy, and hope.
Anxiety is evidence of faithlessness—you’re either filled with faith or filled with anxiety. You can either walk by faith or walk by sight (very often, “sight” is "signs").
Anxiety is stubborn, sticky, generational. Your mother has it; your aunts have it; your grandmother has it.
Unless you break it, you and your entire maternal lineage will become a brood of viper witches—wasting your lives in anxiety, sucking everyone around you dry.
Harsh? I know.
That’s why I was freed.
That’s why I was chosen out of my lineage.
That’s why I am a curse-breaker.
If you are offended and choose to leave now—the demons depart with you. But if you stay? They’ll flee without you.
Witchcraft, anxiety, stalking, occultism, and marine spirits
When it attacked, my heart beat in my throat. I couldn’t do what I should have done—only what I hated, compelled against my will. Fully aware I was betraying myself, yet powerless to resist, I stalked people. When I couldn’t, I played amateur tarot cards, spying on their thoughts and lives. Anxiety whispered that if I obeyed, I’d find answers.
This spirit found me in December 2021 when I started dabbling in Vedic Astrology, tarot, and the Law of Attraction—but didn’t enter me until April’s traumatic event. That trauma left a literal chill in my body, a spine-crawling dread whenever similar situations besieged me.
That same August, I moved from the Bay Area to Southern California. At a local church, I was water-baptized the following April of 2023.
Then came the turning point: renewed mind, discernment rising like light through panic’s mire.
When anxiety struck, I paused—to pray, to observe, to perceive, and to think. Not to think what it demanded, but to think through anxiety itself.
That pause exposed the spirit oppressing me—forcing me to feel what it wanted me to feel, to act on those emotions, to escalate, and ultimately to use my own hands to tear down my life.
“The wise woman builds her house,
But the foolish tears it down with her own hands.” Proverbs 14:1
For a decade, stealthily, it caught me this way; for a decade I felt like drowning.
That wasn't just a feeling—and "drowning" wasn't a metaphor. It was real. These were marine spirits.
I could give a whole new lecture on marine spirits, though I don't yet claim full understanding. But from my own deliverance experience—when I was freed from that spiritual spouse—for the first time in my life, I stood high and dry. No more trudging, no more sinking, no more struggling to breathe or grasping for something.
You’re not dealing with a mental problem. You’re dealing with a demon—a bodiless person with full personality. Its patterns leave traces. Its fruit reveals its identity.
Anxiety paced back and forth, listing all the things I should have been worrying about and accusing me of not thinking about them enough.
All these marine spirits tormented me compulsorily. Even as I'm typing, my wrath rages against the kingdom of darkness—for all those torments, for all the stolen blessings, for all the years they devoured.
The Lord has avenged me.
This victory over anxiety has called me to a new purpose: to free others from anxiety forever, with hands-on guidance and strategies both spiritually and physically.
5 Ways anxiety ruins your life
This post is just the beginning. Just like my testimony on deliverance from spiritual spouses—if I didn't show you what a spiritual spouse does to your life, you would never understand how horrifying and destructive masturbation truly is.
Likewise, you must never tolerate a controlling spirit (in yourself or in others) and you must pursue an anxiety-free life. Yes, I mean ZERO anxiety.
Otherwise, you will suck it in, live with it, compromise, tolerate it, until it eats your life away like a cancer cell.
NO.1 Hormone Imbalance
High cortisol levels and PCOS lead to a series of physical illnesses: acne, weight gain (stubborn belly fat), hair loss, facial hair growth, irregular menstrual cycles, reproductive system dysfunction, even infertility.
It's hard to say which causes which—anxiety or hormone imbalance. But anxiety will inevitably manifest in your physical appearance.
Anxiety isn't mental, not even purely internal—not for long, until it's written all over your face and your body.
NO.2 Eating Disorder
What do we do when we're anxious?—we eat, especially sugary and salty foods that are stimulating enough to be sufficiently distracting.
Overeating, late-night eating, constant foraging and snacking, emotional eating, binge eating—all these poor eating habits are more or less associated with anxiety and stress.
If you find yourself opening the fridge throughout the day, pause and think about what triggers you to do so.
NO.3 Productivity Paralysis
“Your analysis is your paralysis." Anxiety is the ultimate productivity killer. If it catches you in the morning, it will swallow your whole day alive. It paralyzes you, pins you down, saps your fortitude, drains your focus, and melts your discipline. Anxiety depletes your energy, leaving no attention or strength for your daily plans.
NO.4 Suffocated Creativity
Creativity is the mark of God on men. God gives all men creativity—therefore all children are creative. But as we grow, we allow anxiety to suffocate our creativity to death and bury our ordained purpose alive. You've probably noticed you're most creative when free from bill-paying stress. Anxiety and creativity cannot coexist in you—one must die.
NO.5 Relationship Killer
Anxious people treat others poorly. Why? You can't pour peace from a disturbed vessel. Anxiety stems from what you can't control—so you become controlling, pushy, and nagging toward those who have control, desperate to ease your panic. At first, anxiety drains your energy. Year after year, anxiety joins you in one flesh and you’ll become an energy vampire to everyone around you.
Probably worse than that—anxiety enrolls you in martyrdom and victimhood. Not only are you draining people, you'll also blame them for your anxiety because they didn’t do what you told them to do—in time.
With all these 5 consequences of anxiety, it’s clear that anxiety causes:
Physical ugliness
Failure and fruitlessness
Relational struggle
Now, if you’ve determined to live an anxiety-free life, stay tuned. Demon-slaying words will keep coming.
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A lot of tears came reading this article as it acurately depicted a woman I had a relationship with, and I hope she'll find faith someday and break this dark circle.
I pray for your message to reach as much people as possible.
Thanks Alice
thank you Almer Alice He. Praise God ! 🙏🏻